That’s what I want to do right now. To sit under a tree in silence and not do anything. Of course, in my visual, the weather is good, not hot, just a cool autumn breeze.
Or I could curl up in bed and sleep.
I need to clear my head.
I need to relax. Get rid of this tension that has me shaking from the inside like a Psyker that needs to quell peril or else, she’ll explode. The not knowing is getting to me.
Instead, I have this very short list of things to do and it’s still stressing me out.
Why? Because my heart’s not in it.
Heck, I don’t even know where my heart is at right now. I thought I was okay with D fraternizing with my frenemy, H. But after yesterday’s game where I was waxing emo and throwing shade left and right, clearly, I am not okay with it. This is a case of foot and mouth disease though because I did tell D to go right ahead and add him to his friend’s list. (I deleted my message about promising to be okay with it because that was just untrue.) So that makes it more cringe-worthy – that I gave him the go ahead and then backtracked because I was clearly affected.
H was my sworn frenemy. He treated me like shit and got away with it.
Back then when D became my sounding board for all things H, he promised me that he wouldn’t befriend H. I even told him that if he did, it would be “friendship over” for the two of us. And now here, during our “timeout”, he goes and accepts H’s friend request that was languishing in his inbox for months. Then he gives me the lame excuse that he mistook the steam friend request while partying up to be the ingame only friend request.
Does he take me for an idiot? That’s already two strikes in one. If D wanted to hurt me, then he’s gotten what he wanted. If D wanted to sabotage whatever’s remaining of our friendship, then he might just have been successful at it. What I don’t understand is the cruelty of it all.
He already broke my heart by putting his foot down and telling me that he didn’t want to get to know me more, and that we would be nothing more than friends. I said fine.
He said that he wanted to play other games with other people. I gave him that. What I didn’t expect him to do was to hang out with my friends. So thank you for invading my supposed sanctuary during this “timeout”. Still, I took that in stride. It wasn’t really a problem for me to find other friends to play with. There are actually four guys (with their friends) whom I hung out with during the beta because D would play with the guys I usually play with.
To be fair, I rathered that he did play with folks in my home server. At least, I could see who he was playing with and spending time with instead of my imagination running wild and wondering. I even thought that it was nice of him to do that. Good faith, you know. Then this thing with H happened.
There’s a reason why, during TROs, parties are exhorted to maintain the status quo. Nothing that would rock the boat really because relations are already precarious. I would call this an aggravating circumstance. It feels like a betrayal of trust and confidence. And I kind of sort of know it is because my heart went on lockdown.
Yup, the store is closed. Sarado na ang tindahan. I feel like he picked H over me, that he didn’t put a premium on how I felt about H after a month and a half of spending half the day with him and baring my soul out. And when I saw them together in that game we played yesterday, it left a bitter taste in the mouth seeing them all chummy chummy like they had put up a club for Guys who Rejected Butter.
Out of all the guys out there he could play with, the 10M new players of V2, the randos he could be matched with in-game, D picks the one person I told him not to befriend. Talk about rubbing salt into the wound. I didn’t even tell him to not play with the guy. He could go ahead and do that. It was only adding H onto his friendlist that I entreated him not to do and which he promised me that he wouldn’t do.
So there’s that. Then, there’s the lie about how it went about. What am I supposed to do with that?
Obfuscation. That’s the state I’m in right now. Bristling mad from the inside because I gave D much more credit that I ought to have given him. I need to calm down. What I don’t know at this moment is if I will have calmed down enough at the end of our “timeout” to actually want to pursue being friends with someone who clearly doesn’t value me.
I was tempted to ask him why. My guides clearly and quickly prompted me with “you say it best when you say nothing at all” – that song, in my head, in response to my unspoken query. So i’m taking the dignified silence route.
I sure hope H was worth it.